"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cell Phone question...

Walking Anomaly

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Hey all...How's life treatin ya?

I have a question about cell phones... I recently got a call on my cell. The number came up and was my girlfriend's number, so i answered it. To my surprise, it wasnt her...so some guy says, " What's up I just banged your gf im callin from her cell phone." So i said, "great" and hung up haha.

Anyway, i decide to call her number back and i get her, so i her ask who just called from her cell...she tells me that no one called - shes had her cell phone all night and didnt go out. Needless to say this caught my interest.

I have no idea what the hell happened...Has anyone ever heard of this happening, or know how its done? - Calling someone from your cell but when they look at it to see whos calling they see a number other than yours??

I asked some friends and they said theyve heard of it, and think that it is maybe called ghosting...something about calling some number, which you can then dial in the number of who you want to call and what number you want to come up when you call...

i have no idea, so i figured id ask here, see if anyone can shed some light on the situation.

Much appreciated
WA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyldfire

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Yes, it can be done:

http://www.spoofcard.com/

The person who did this is likely trying to break you and your g/f up, likely because he wants her. That should help you figure out who did it.
 

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Walking Anomaly said:
haha, so this clown actually shelled out some dough to do that...even if it is only a few bucks, still kinda silly..

Probably her ex.

Thanks Wyld:up:
There may be other ways to do it that don't cost money. Is her ex being a pain and trying to get back with her?
 

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hmm yeah, i thought there might be a way to do it for free, tried looking but no luck.

As for the ex, ive heard a bit from him now and then as far as it goes with bein a bother...since we started dating, but not like he tries this stuff on daily, weekly, or sometimes even monthly basis. Nothing really to fret over...far as i know she doesnt talk to him...he usually jus tries to start with me, like a punk.

~WA
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah, sounds like he is the most likely one who would do something like this. It's really immature. Glad I could help answer your question. It's good that you aren't letting it bug you...that's the best way to handle this kind of stuff.
 

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Either that, or you're gf is cheating on you and lying about it.
 

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You can also change your voice to sound like man>woman/woman>man.

So, it might be a chick, which is more likely: I can't imagine a dude going through that drama.

Jealous ex, changes her voice to a dude, calls from the number, and messes with your head. Hooray for technology! :rolleyes:

I don't give credit to anything on the phone, especially texts since you can just go to the company's website and type in any phone number you want.
 

Walking Anomaly

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Could be Vulp...i saw how that stuff can change your voice...

Luke...I have - isnt the case though...of course i know every chick is capable of cheatin..

but im not worried about it.

And i mean if you've learned that "once trust is gained its abused," from having it happen to you so much, id start screening better or jus lookin for other women...not all abuse trust, though they all are capable.

You cant be with a chick if you refuse to trust them because you think they'll abuse you once you do.

~WA
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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