"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cell phone on belt?

thewarrior

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Do you have a cell phone case that slips on your belt? Or do you keep it in your pocket?

I've heard that wearing it on your hip via belt case makes you look like a tool. I do this only because I have my wallet in my left pocket, keys in my right, and nothing in my back pockets. I don't want to stuff the phone in the pocket with my wallet, and my keys will scratch the screen. If it's winter time, I use my coat jacket to hold my phone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cinamon

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Wearing your mobile on your belt is very uncool, I wouldnt look twice at a guy who did this. Same goes for guys who wear their mobile around their neck [shudder]
 

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For me its awkward putting your cell phone on belt, imagine everytime you will use it you need to pull up your Shirts or Polos very inconvenient. Well Cant blame other for they believe that it is safe to put cell phone on your belt against Theft.
 

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listening to things like "I HEARD......"..........makes you a tool.

I got a huge old school phone from back in the 80's hanging on my belt.......girls look at it and secretly say "WOW THATS A HUGE ONE"......

and I say "ya you should feel it vibrate".........
 

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If you're so worried about it, why dont you hang your keys off your belt instead?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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prairiedog24

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COD said:
listening to things like "I HEARD......"..........makes you a tool.

I got a huge old school phone from back in the 80's hanging on my belt.......girls look at it and secretly say "WOW THATS A HUGE ONE"......

and I say "ya you should feel it vibrate".........

HAHA...

Oldschool rocks.
 

Mike32ct

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I have a leather fold-up case for my phone. It protects it from keys or change scratching the phone. It goes in my pocket like a second wallet.

I agree that you don't wear the phone on your belt.

There also plastic covers that work.
 

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this is over analyzation .. no one cares, where your damn cell phone where you want. if a girl is so annal that she cares how u wear ur phone shes probably no good..
 

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I put it wherever I feel like. had it in a shirt pocket once-girl felt me up to see what was in it-then felt up the other side to compare.
 

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Holy crap dude. Seriously?

Phones on belts are uncool.

Put it in your back pocket, as well as your wallet. Keys in either front pocket. Hence room for random stuff in other pocket. It's not rocket science.

Not comfortable? Get used to it. Get out of your comfort zone.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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San Jose California said:
Because it's a pain in the ass to have your phone in a crowded pocket when you need to retrieve it quickly.

I sympathize with the OP -- I just got the new iPhone, and I like to keep it in it's own pocket to keep the screen from scratching up.
 

Poonani Maker

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I wear it on my belt, but I cant work with it that way because it'll turn upsidedown and fall out in my physical job, otherwise, I wear it on my belt. Girls still want my as5.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yes, you will totally look like a tool wearing a cell phone around your belt.





















NOT!! Honestly, does it really matter. Do you really care that much what people think. You have your own freedom of choice so you can do what the fvck you feel like doing. Or if you want to fit it with the rest of the sheep you can do whats "cool".
 

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I fail to see why it makes you look like a tool. Some clothing rules makes no sense, this is one of them. To me, it seems like a cell phone on the belt is functional.

I think texting all the time makes you look like a tool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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