Cautionary tale playing out publicly in the NFL for men

[BackInTheGame78]

Let's pump the brakes on labeling his wife a "victim." For Vrabel to be carrying on a long-term affair this way, it clearly signals that there were marital problems leading to that. No, Vrabel did not handle it the right way and should have just called it good on his marriage before the cheating began, but there is probably a high chance his wife was engaging in conduct that was unbearable to be around - hence him looking elsewhere for what he was missing.

Maybe you are right, but that is not generally how this type of long-term things occur. I am guessing we haven't heard the last bit of info on this.

Not sure if you know the life of an NFL coach but they are literally never there and always working so there actually a good chance they were simply disconnected from never being together or spending time together.

Essentially she was single 90% of the time and responsible for everything with the kids.

 

[Barrister]

Not sure if you know the life of an NFL coach but they are literally never there and always working so there actually a good chance they were simply disconnected from never being together or spending time together.

Essentially she was single 90% of the time and responsible for everything with the kids.

Maybe. Maybe not. Not sure any of us really know the full story. However, I have been around long enough now to know that very little in life is black and white. Vrabel certainly deserves the sh1t he is getting. But I highly doubt his wife is some angel that was waiting hand and foot on him to get home. Most people don't start cheating unless there are problems beforehand.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Just look at the NFL draft to see more suckers. Youthful college grads with their trophy woman hanging on his arm ready to get that bag. It's great entertainment but sad to see.

 

[Divorced w 3]

But I highly doubt his wife is some angel that was waiting hand and foot on him to get home. Most people don't start cheating unless there are problems beforehand.

why not?

maybe he’s just…selfish?

 

[BaronOfHair]

For all the (justifiable)flack Lizzie McGuire is taking for her recent candor

There's wisdom to be found here... She says: "My ex was nice, but there was no chaos, and my p-s-y became drier than The Sahara in the middle of June". Translate this from W-m-nese and into Plain Language:

"My ex was duller than f-c-ing cardboard.. I want a man who possesses fire, doesn't hesitate to take me over his knee(physically and metaphorically)then set my buns ablaze, on those occasions I get bratty. I want Don Draper, Harvey Specter, Jax Teller, Christian Grey... Not the typical MCU loving man-babies who've populated the planet for the past decade"

Clearly, this is pretty much what happened in the case discussed in The OP