"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Causes of Lost of Interest?

Sam Adams

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Hey what are the causes of LOI in a girl and how can you prevent them? I am mainly asking about a loss of interest after initial contact. I ask because the other day I got the number of a girl (8.5) and after waiting a few days to call she won't answer her phone. THe second time I left a brief voicemail identifying myself and telling her to call back. Frankly, I'm very surprised she lost interest because it was by far and away the smoothest approach I have had recently and I have been trying to approach numerous girls the past couple weeks. I opened well, managed to neg her and make her laugh. She also flirted back and her body language appeared to show interest. My only guess is that she may have had a boyfriend and realizes my interest and would like to be loyal. So what are some reasons for LOI after initial contact and what can else can someone do to prevent LOI?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Sam Adams said:
Hey what are the causes of LOI in a girl and how can you prevent them? I am mainly asking about a loss of interest after initial contact. I ask because the other day I got the number of a girl (8.5) and after waiting a few days to call she won't answer her phone. THe second time I left a brief voicemail identifying myself and telling her to call back. Frankly, I'm very surprised she lost interest because it was by far and away the smoothest approach I have had recently and I have been trying to approach numerous girls the past couple weeks. I opened well, managed to neg her and make her laugh. She also flirted back and her body language appeared to show interest. My only guess is that she may have had a boyfriend and realizes my interest and would like to be loyal. So what are some reasons for LOI after initial contact and what can else can someone do to prevent LOI?
There 'ya go...
 

Sam Adams

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
There 'ya go...
So when do you advocate calling? I always here that calling the next day shows desperation and that by waiting 2-3 days like I did you make her wait which causes her to wonder when you will call as well as showing that you have other things to do.
 
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I have a problem sometimes getting the # but not getting the date. I think it is because I don't talk to them enough when I get the #. You have to create interest before you call because just getting the # doesn't always work.
 
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