"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cats and Dogs.... what's behind it?

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I'm seeing a lot of women around me with dogs. They have their pictures on the desktops
of their laptops and it's all they ever talk about. Ohh isn't he cute! he's my blah blah blah.

I don't give a ****... i hope your stupid dog gets run over!! :box:
Well i don't actually say that, but i'm thinking it the entire time she's talking about it. :)


So this plus the "Law of the Tiger" thread i posted earlier got me thinking.
Your stereotypical crazy woman has tons of cats around her.
We also have the people who say i'm a dog person, or i'm a cat person. But once we know a girl is a cat or a dog person can we determine what kind of person she is based on it? What do we really know about ourselves?

Well just wanted to open a discussion of the type of attributes Dog People and Cat People have. Here's what I've noticed:


Dogs: loyal companion, affectionate, pack instinct, followers, dependent personality

Types of people i know who have dogs:

2 Shy girls who never got noticed in HS (very loyal and dependent, have this sappy idea of true love and "the one"),
some fat girls, 1 drama queen, most guys, me before i found this site.


Cats: independent, un-tamable, usually not pack animals

Types of people i've known who have cats:

my assh0le professor who is a total sexist, my-ex gf who led me to this site ( possible daddy issues, thing for bad boys... and jerks like i used to be, till i turned into a total AFC-wuss-bag over her) , Dr. evil in Austin powers .. yeah, i really can't think of many guys who have cats.


Now just looking at the characteristics i see dogs as having a lot of AFC traits and cats having an almost DJ-esque independent lifestyle.
Is it possible that the type of animal we adore has a lot to do with the type of person we are?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I got 3 cats and a dog.

I've noticed though girls are typically way more into cats than dogs.
 
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Look at a woman's values and her principles and not at the pet she owns!! Judge her based on her character - meaning, who she is!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Look at a woman's values and her principles and not at the pet she owns!! Judge her based on her character - meaning, who she is!!
Amen!

Going back to the topic though, one thing I have noticed is that if you are good with cats, you already know how to handle women. They are fickle, self-centered and total b!tches..(no, i dont want to be petted now, thank you).

Two of the best PUAs I know are cat owners if that means anything.

I don't give a ****... i hope your stupid dog gets run over!!
Very nice. I'm sure they will appreciate the animal lover in you.
 

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Play the Game said:
Is it possible that the type of animal we adore has a lot to do with the type of person we are?
No.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

Stop overanalyzing sh*t and get some f*cking p*ssy bro.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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