"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cats and Dogs.... what's behind it?

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I'm seeing a lot of women around me with dogs. They have their pictures on the desktops
of their laptops and it's all they ever talk about. Ohh isn't he cute! he's my blah blah blah.

I don't give a ****... i hope your stupid dog gets run over!! :box:
Well i don't actually say that, but i'm thinking it the entire time she's talking about it. :)


So this plus the "Law of the Tiger" thread i posted earlier got me thinking.
Your stereotypical crazy woman has tons of cats around her.
We also have the people who say i'm a dog person, or i'm a cat person. But once we know a girl is a cat or a dog person can we determine what kind of person she is based on it? What do we really know about ourselves?

Well just wanted to open a discussion of the type of attributes Dog People and Cat People have. Here's what I've noticed:


Dogs: loyal companion, affectionate, pack instinct, followers, dependent personality

Types of people i know who have dogs:

2 Shy girls who never got noticed in HS (very loyal and dependent, have this sappy idea of true love and "the one"),
some fat girls, 1 drama queen, most guys, me before i found this site.


Cats: independent, un-tamable, usually not pack animals

Types of people i've known who have cats:

my assh0le professor who is a total sexist, my-ex gf who led me to this site ( possible daddy issues, thing for bad boys... and jerks like i used to be, till i turned into a total AFC-wuss-bag over her) , Dr. evil in Austin powers .. yeah, i really can't think of many guys who have cats.


Now just looking at the characteristics i see dogs as having a lot of AFC traits and cats having an almost DJ-esque independent lifestyle.
Is it possible that the type of animal we adore has a lot to do with the type of person we are?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got 3 cats and a dog.

I've noticed though girls are typically way more into cats than dogs.
 
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Look at a woman's values and her principles and not at the pet she owns!! Judge her based on her character - meaning, who she is!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Look at a woman's values and her principles and not at the pet she owns!! Judge her based on her character - meaning, who she is!!
Amen!

Going back to the topic though, one thing I have noticed is that if you are good with cats, you already know how to handle women. They are fickle, self-centered and total b!tches..(no, i dont want to be petted now, thank you).

Two of the best PUAs I know are cat owners if that means anything.

I don't give a ****... i hope your stupid dog gets run over!!
Very nice. I'm sure they will appreciate the animal lover in you.
 

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Play the Game said:
Is it possible that the type of animal we adore has a lot to do with the type of person we are?
No.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

Stop overanalyzing sh*t and get some f*cking p*ssy bro.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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