"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Catfished: Think YOU'VE had "one-itus?"

Naughty Ninja

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I heard about that movie Catfish and decided to check out parts of it on Youtube. I'd came across videos from users (who knows if some were making up stories to get freebies for the movie promo) people who had actually "fallen in love" with a stranger online who used fake pictures and talked for MONTHS or longer without meeting till the dopes eventually wised up and found out the person was a fake. Can you say embarrassingly pathetic?

Not only that but some people admitting to making several fake MySpace or Facebook pages and having "Conversations" between then for "authenticity" just to dupe other people into thinking the fake person is them and talk to others online for God knows how long.

Now I could understand someone putting a fake dating profile up just to test responses quickly and then just deleting the profile to prove a looks theory. But to sit online for months, create not only a fake facebook so a person would think it's them, but also several other fake facebooks to "chat" on the pages to add even more "realness" to it, as well as actually giving out their real number to talk on the phone to others whom they've gotten numbers from a fake profile on online dating for weeks, months, or longer till they got busted? Damn...lol

Here's a video of one dude who talked to a chick for like three months or longer till he busted her. Dude "feel in love" with her pictures..then after the chick told him it wasn't her, he asked if she knew the person in the pictures. The chick said yes and this dude wanted her to get him to meet that chick even after he found out the chick in the pics had a boyfriend and he wasn't even talking to her! WTF?!?!

(The video this dude made is 27 minutes long so if you get downtime to pass..Damn..)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skBR3PysGjQ
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VladPatton

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Yeah man, I've been there. That ṣhit fücks you up in the head to the point where you fall in love with a figment of your own imagination. It's a low confidence/self esteem ṣhitcake with a thick layer of AFC flavored icing. Never again!
 

irocknike23

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Never met anyone online like that or talked to one...but it is a crazy world. I think that is as low as it goes in terms of how desperate someone is.
 
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