"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cashier Fingered My Palm

LoneSilver

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I have been thinking about this for a couple days and wanted to gage the sage hands here.

I walked into a vitamin store the other day and notice a new cashier working and she was pretty dam hot looking. As I looked over the things in the store it seemed she offered personal information about herself without me even asking like her husband is in another state on business, where she drove from to come into work but then I check her fingers out and no ring. As I stood there looking at different items it was like she couldn't help but continue to talk to me or try and make conversation it was like I was being subduced by this lady and she wanted to screw me this was the vibe I was feeling from her as her boss was also in the store.

Long story short when she was giving me my change back I noticed unlike anything I have ever experienced with a cashier before she fingered the palm of my hand and normally cashiers sorta throw the change and bills into my hand and I couldn't help but get a rise out of it as it was so unexpected.

I was going to go for the digits but my girlfriend was in the truck in view of both of us so I didn't want her to see the exchange but I wouldn't mind a fling with this babe but I have to respect my fellow man but I didn't see her wedding ring if her husband was that important to her or if she was even married.

Tell me something.

LoneSilver
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thedeparted

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You are worried about respecting her husband but not your GF?
 

ketostix

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Well since you said your GF was in plain view in your vehicle, it's possible she saw you come with the girl in your truck. Women will flirt when they think there's no real opportunity for actually doing something about it, she's married, you came in with a girl, she's at work and her manager is there, etc.
 

LoneSilver

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Espi seems like a good plan. I'll feel things out.

Also to add when she told me where she came from to work she lives about 45 miles so it's not like she lives in the same area as me or where she works plus the fingering the palm was a bold move for a cashier to do that tells me it's more then flirting but I will feel things out when I know when she's working again.

Thanks

LoneSilver
 
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