"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cashier Fingered My Palm

LoneSilver

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I have been thinking about this for a couple days and wanted to gage the sage hands here.

I walked into a vitamin store the other day and notice a new cashier working and she was pretty dam hot looking. As I looked over the things in the store it seemed she offered personal information about herself without me even asking like her husband is in another state on business, where she drove from to come into work but then I check her fingers out and no ring. As I stood there looking at different items it was like she couldn't help but continue to talk to me or try and make conversation it was like I was being subduced by this lady and she wanted to screw me this was the vibe I was feeling from her as her boss was also in the store.

Long story short when she was giving me my change back I noticed unlike anything I have ever experienced with a cashier before she fingered the palm of my hand and normally cashiers sorta throw the change and bills into my hand and I couldn't help but get a rise out of it as it was so unexpected.

I was going to go for the digits but my girlfriend was in the truck in view of both of us so I didn't want her to see the exchange but I wouldn't mind a fling with this babe but I have to respect my fellow man but I didn't see her wedding ring if her husband was that important to her or if she was even married.

Tell me something.

LoneSilver
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thedeparted

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You are worried about respecting her husband but not your GF?
 

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Well since you said your GF was in plain view in your vehicle, it's possible she saw you come with the girl in your truck. Women will flirt when they think there's no real opportunity for actually doing something about it, she's married, you came in with a girl, she's at work and her manager is there, etc.
 

LoneSilver

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Espi seems like a good plan. I'll feel things out.

Also to add when she told me where she came from to work she lives about 45 miles so it's not like she lives in the same area as me or where she works plus the fingering the palm was a bold move for a cashier to do that tells me it's more then flirting but I will feel things out when I know when she's working again.

Thanks

LoneSilver
 
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