"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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War Against Betaism

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So the 3rd day in the row, I saw a potential target of mine get swept off her feet by one of my very good friends. He is someone who I would actually call a natural. He's really great at kinoing and has women calling him all the time. He's a really great friend and is bros before hoes, but every time I'm with him, I just feel powerless. I'm so used to making the first move when I'm with my other friends, but this guy always makes the first move, and women are always IOIing him. I actually tried making the first move today on this girl me and him have known for like a week, but it was out of context of what I usually do and what I did was very awkward. She clearly wasn't interested in me and went after my friend. Though I don't hate him, he even told me later on "Hey man, I know you like her, I won't do anything she's yours." I'm just envious sometimes, that he can be so comfortable around women SOOO quickly, how he can touch them without the slightest hint of nervousness in just a matter of minutes.

I actually don't know what purpose I wrote this to. It's just been on my mind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ready123

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most pick-up artists including Style and the RSD Guys developed their game by modeling naturals and figuring out what those naturals were doing. and your friend is totally cool, which means you have a good wing and a good resource to learn

and remember those other friends who don't make the first move are probably envious of you
 

xdreamz

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hey dude you have a good attitude... a little while back i was with this guy and he was crazy with women. i mean he would have women just racing to him multiple girlfriends, all that. one day we went out and he told me to pick up on these girls.. and him being the "CMOG" he chose the best looking one. i was completely fine with the 7.5 and told him "yea don't worry man she's all yours I got this one"....literally 2 hours later the better looking one started initiating kino with me, telling me to dance with her and even gave me the kiss close.. call it the superman's kryptonite, the wing......and I was just feeling so lucky the CMOG told me "you're a pimp" and it gave me more confidence. don't get jealous just be happy with what you got and later more will come to you naturally.

it's good that you have this friend, learn from him. learn from the things he tells you.
 

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Yeah you guys are right, I was just a bit confused on the course of action I should have taken at the moment. He's a friend that I can not only learn off of from, but also keep close.
 

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He seems like a really cool guy too, seeing that he said such a thing when he noticed you were after her. Try asking to wing for him and watch his style, learning from what he does like dreamz and ready123 said?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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