"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism

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So the 3rd day in the row, I saw a potential target of mine get swept off her feet by one of my very good friends. He is someone who I would actually call a natural. He's really great at kinoing and has women calling him all the time. He's a really great friend and is bros before hoes, but every time I'm with him, I just feel powerless. I'm so used to making the first move when I'm with my other friends, but this guy always makes the first move, and women are always IOIing him. I actually tried making the first move today on this girl me and him have known for like a week, but it was out of context of what I usually do and what I did was very awkward. She clearly wasn't interested in me and went after my friend. Though I don't hate him, he even told me later on "Hey man, I know you like her, I won't do anything she's yours." I'm just envious sometimes, that he can be so comfortable around women SOOO quickly, how he can touch them without the slightest hint of nervousness in just a matter of minutes.

I actually don't know what purpose I wrote this to. It's just been on my mind.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ready123

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most pick-up artists including Style and the RSD Guys developed their game by modeling naturals and figuring out what those naturals were doing. and your friend is totally cool, which means you have a good wing and a good resource to learn

and remember those other friends who don't make the first move are probably envious of you
 

xdreamz

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hey dude you have a good attitude... a little while back i was with this guy and he was crazy with women. i mean he would have women just racing to him multiple girlfriends, all that. one day we went out and he told me to pick up on these girls.. and him being the "CMOG" he chose the best looking one. i was completely fine with the 7.5 and told him "yea don't worry man she's all yours I got this one"....literally 2 hours later the better looking one started initiating kino with me, telling me to dance with her and even gave me the kiss close.. call it the superman's kryptonite, the wing......and I was just feeling so lucky the CMOG told me "you're a pimp" and it gave me more confidence. don't get jealous just be happy with what you got and later more will come to you naturally.

it's good that you have this friend, learn from him. learn from the things he tells you.
 

War Against Betaism

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Yeah you guys are right, I was just a bit confused on the course of action I should have taken at the moment. He's a friend that I can not only learn off of from, but also keep close.
 

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He seems like a really cool guy too, seeing that he said such a thing when he noticed you were after her. Try asking to wing for him and watch his style, learning from what he does like dreamz and ready123 said?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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