Carousel-riding harridan complains that men she meets from OLD don't stick around

[MatureDJ]

I’m Dating Men Again for the First Time in Years—and I’ve Noticed One Very Big Change

What's going on here?

slate.com

I am a straight woman in my early 30s who ended a long-term relationship about a year ago. I’ve always considered myself lucky in dating and in love. Before my relationship, I was always the girl with the most dates lined up, the most “suitors” if you will, and had a very active sex life with multiple men.

Back in the day, I used to meet everyone in real life. The majority of the time, these hookups would lead to multiple meet-ups, with guys I would see on and off for months or even years. Now, five years later, I’m using apps to meet up with guys, and boy are the results different. I seal the deal on the first date with almost all the guys I go out with—again, this was the same pattern that I was used to when meeting guys in real life—but now, the guys don’t seem interested in meeting up again, and some even ghost me.

I don’t understand what’s going on. All of them seem super interested in me and eager to jump into bed when we meet up, and then poof, they’re gone. Five years ago, I couldn’t get AWAY from all the men trying to build longer relationships with me.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Because they know if you are doing this with them you are doing this with everyone else too