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Caring 'too' much about your wellbeing

Bokanovsky

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I would imagine the girl being more attractive may influence a man's willingness to protect, but I would hope a man would step up to plate defending those who are in need regardless of their background or looks. Perhaps that is too idealistic of an outlook to have though
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You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Ever wonder why in almost every famous missing woman case, the missing woman is hot?
I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm saying it would be nice if people cared and protected one another regardless of physical traits or their sex, but that isn't reality. Most humans will not go the extra mile to do something for someone else, most people think they would in certain situations, but only a rare few actually do.
 

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I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm saying it would be nice if people cared and protected one another regardless of physical traits or their sex, but that isn't reality.
This happens, to an extent, but only in small communities. Once the community grows beyond a certain size, social cohesion starts to come apart.
 

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You mean like protect a girl from her abusive boyfriend? Like one thread in here about an alcoholic single mother who don't have custody of her children and the guy wants to her ex's house and he does something to her, hi will kill him? Like a white knight? Idk man that sounds like a fool.
Dude what? Why are you pulling this irrelevant non sequitur bull****.
 

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Close friends and girls who have a bit of interest will do this.

It's pretty normal.

I wouldn't look too much into it.

These are kinds of people you want to keep around.
 

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Have you ever noticed how some women care deeply about your well being and sometimes get angry when you jeopardize it?
Not my experience,

I’ve found girls only interact with men because they want something from them; money, work, sex. Heck, if the man had money, the girl wouldn’t mind if he died sooner so she could collect.

Don’t think Vanessa Bryant is too hurting too much right now. $750,000,000 and can f any young guy she wants.
 

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Not my experience,

I’ve found girls only interact with men because they want something from them; money, work, sex. Heck, if the man had money, the girl wouldn’t mind if he died sooner so she could collect.

Don’t think Vanessa Bryant is too hurting too much right now. $750,000,000 and can f any young guy she wants.
I would say most girls fit the mold of being 'transactional' in that regard, but so do men in our own way. We want sex, submissiveness, femininity and things of that nature. Relationships are and always will be transactional to an extent, but you've really not had a woman care for your well being? Have you not had a someone like you romantically for just being you?
 
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