Caring less is the answer?

[Jair213]

Sup yall. ON some of my previous posts some of witch probably some of you saw was that was talking to some chick at work, i dont work there anymore.

Bein dating her ever since, this is the first time I have being showing carelessness, not in that sense but I just let her do all the initiation on wen to see each other, and 60 percent of the time i re-arrange the dats due to me being busy, going to the gym, etc.

Now she wants to come to the gym with me and get a membership.(even though she always hated working out and going to the gym)

She even asks me stuff like. do you enjoy hanging out with me? etc. I just tell her that I do, but I never ask her if she does with me when she asks those type of questions, infact 3 days ago she ask me to come run with her(witch she hates as previously stated) Dont get me wrong though she's slim no fat cute chick.

Now yesterday she ask me if i ever thought of being in an LTR, and i told her i dont look for that if it comes to me it comes, and ill make decisions acordingly. She just stayed quiet and then said ''well i mention it because i always seem to be the one talking about this topics'' as if i care more about wats going on...

 

[alphaace]

So do you have a question? And how old are you?

 

[Jair213]

25.

Just that my state of mind towards this chick has being ''careless'' I wonder if thats even the case as to why she's even being like this.

 

[alphaace]

She's wanting more out of the relationship than just friends. I didn't read your previous posts about this girl but if you are interested in her she is pretty much throwing herself at you. I wouldn't say you are being careless, just indifferent. If you are interested then do what you wan't, if not, cast her aside and don't feel bad about it, chicks do it so why can't we?

 

[youngmack]

She's wanting more out of the relationship than just friends. I didn't read your previous posts about this girl but if you are interested in her she is pretty much throwing herself at you. I wouldn't say you are being careless, just indifferent. If you are interested then do what you wan't, if not, cast her aside and don't feel bad about it, chicks do it so why can't we?

True but OP keep in mind that some girls like the idea of chasing a guy and getting him to commit. Once she gets the guy to commit the fun is no longer there,you're no longer a challenge and she dogs you. I'm not saying this is the case but i'm just saying keep your guard up. You can show her some interest but not too much like a herb (my def. for an AFC) would. Push and pull. You can choose what you want whether its to just pipe or get in a relationship bruh.