"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
careless driving ticket
- Thread starter Julian
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
-Damian
Tho thats a bummer man... I do donuts all the time with my truck now so much fun!!! expecially wehn there are couple of people doing it. But am kinda risking it cuz my truck has lift kit + big tires so yeah
Second of all, in the state I live in moving violations cannot be given on private property, such as a business parking lot. I discovered this after getting a seatbelt ticket while in a wal-mart parking lot, and it got dismissed because I was on private property and therefore not subject to traffic laws.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
im probably going to end up paying for the ticket but ill try and plead my case and make a deal to keep it off my driving record.
thx for the replies fellas.
keep pimpin
diablo
Master Don Juan
Best bet is to dress up in at least slacks and a button down - at most a suit and tie (preferred) and apologize for the whole fiasco.
Kinda reminds me of the time I went to court for a speeding ticket and the judge asked who I was defending.