"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Epic

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I'm still trying to figure out what I would like to do. I plan on getting involved with investments, but still I would like a decent career, in case nothing ever comes of that. I would like to have as high of a salary as I can get. Of course this is going to involve college. I'm into philosophy, history, politics, and spirituality (I'm Buddhist.) I enjoy writing, literature, songwriting, playing the guitar, and extreme sports. I have an adventureous nature. I like to learn. I have slightly above average interest in the physical, biological, and social sciences. Math has always been my worst subject. I have a small interest in technology. Anyway, I'm not trying to make this sound like a personal ad. I'm just looking for ideas and suggestions that maybe I haven't thought of that would fit me. Anything would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Epic

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Well, I've attended some college pursuing a computer science degree but I stopped that because it didn't hold my interest. I mean I'm good enough at math to be able to handle finances. I took Accounting, Economics, and Math in Society in high school. I just can't do Calculus and I'm not really that good at Geometry.
 

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Epic said:
I'm still trying to figure out what I would like to do. I plan on getting involved with investments, but still I would like a decent career, in case nothing ever comes of that. I would like to have as high of a salary as I can get. Of course this is going to involve college. I'm into philosophy, history, politics, and spirituality (I'm Buddhist.) I enjoy writing, literature, songwriting, playing the guitar, and extreme sports. I have an adventureous nature. I like to learn. I have slightly above average interest in the physical, biological, and social sciences. Math has always been my worst subject. I have a small interest in technology. Anyway, I'm not trying to make this sound like a personal ad. I'm just looking for ideas and suggestions that maybe I haven't thought of that would fit me. Anything would be greatly appreciated.
Finance is going to kill you. The money may be good, but for some who seems to be artistic, I cant see how a career in finance is going to be good for you. No point earning a packet when you hate your job.

If you enjoy social sciences perhaps you should consider something along the lines of Industrial Phsycology or Marketing. It will allow you to use your artisitic streak a little more and you wont be stuck behind a desk all day long. It also opens up a lot of industries for you. Be it a traditional marketing role or even sales role, there is a lot of money to be made and the eventual opportunity to even employ yourself when you find your niche.

my 2 cents
 

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I just got a job with a good life/health insurance company and am taking the state exam in a month. It is a good opportunity, if you get in with a good company they will train you well and more importantly be ethical and honest in their business practices. It kinda came out of nowhere(monster.com), and it is not an industry that requires a set major. Opportunities are great for personal growth, but since you're on commission (60% at first then you have the option to go 90 if you want), its all on your own achievements. Just an idea, might be something to look into.
 
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