"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cardio while bulking

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I'm 6' and weigh 160 pounds. I indeed to start bulking up as soon as I start college and have access to the Gym. I've read through Diesel's guide and noticed he said absolutely no cardio. However, I'm going into aviation and have to stay in shape to keep my medical and I have heart disease in my family. I'd like to do some swimming to try to get into shape and help prevent such a problem. How much cardio should I do to keep in shape while not impeding on my bulking? Could I use something like hand weights to help with the bulking while still getting the cardio exercise? Thanks a lot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm in almost the same exact position as you, and I'm not posting to answer your question, but rather to seek an answer for myself. I'm beginning to bulk tomorrow but I definitely need to keep my cardio health in shape, as I play football for my HS.

So...to anybody who *does* have answers: thanks.
 

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When it comes to cardio HIIT training has been proven to be most effective without loosing too much muscle in the process. HIIT means you train in intervals going slowly and then increase intensity of the training for a while and then decrease intensity. Do a search about it for more details. HIIT can be applied to almost any cardio exercise.

The amount I am not 100% sure. I travel 14 km every day with my bicycle and on top of that do one pass om HIIT-training. I have been able to gain some muscle in the process. So I think 1-2 HIIT passes per week and 2-3 passes of strength training should be possible for anyone. Just listen to what your body tells you. If you feel depressed, tired, have no strenght or just lack any motivation for training, then you are training too much.
 

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Try to keep it to a minimum and don't do cardio and weight training on the same day.

Maybe once or twice a week up to 45 minutes.
 

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NO WAY, 45 minutes is way too much, you will eat your muscles away!!! Start with 4 minutes HIIT training and increase gradually up to 15 minutes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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