"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cardio Frequency

SinisterOne

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Is 6 times a week cardio a good amount or is it overdoing it? I only need to get rid of a small amount of body fat. And, I am mixing in HIIT with regular cardio (basketball).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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piranha45

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You can't overdo running.

Back in highschool when I was track/cc I often ran 2 times a day (3-5 miles each time) 5 days a week, and once a day on the weekends.

and that is still absolutely nothing to marathon runners.

run like the wind, if you have the motivation to do so.
 

Werman

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What he said. I've heard from guys before that doing cardio causes you to lose muscle. These are the guys with the guts hanging over their shorts lifting weights in the gym. They just don't want to get themselves out of breath.

If you are lifting and eating right, you won't lose muscle mass. You can do cardio 7 days a week, twice per day, and you'll feel great.

My personal preference is to mix up what I do for cardio, between running, swimming, biking, etc. But it's up to you. Pay attention to what your body is telling you. If you run every day for a couple of weeks and start to feel some pain in your joints, throw in some swimming and some biking.

There are so many cardio exercises that are enjoyable... just have fun with it!
 
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