You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It sounds a bit suspect. Yeah, if you begin your cardio at a deficit of carbs to sustain the workout you could become hungry afterwards. The problem is that people in general tend to eat too fast and end up eating more than they need or even want because they don't recognize that "satisfied" feeling during the time they're wolfing down food.DrHouse said:Anyone see that book about avoiding any cardio and just lifting. They claim that cardio makes you more hungry and thus you overeat....any truth to this?I love my cardio....my stress reliever.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Oh I'm saying not to lift. The benefit from lifting is that your body will continuously burn more calories to sustain the added muscle. I'd question the guy on "Good morning America" on what his diet was like. It's not a question about how much you eat either, what matters is what you eat.DrHouse said:I don't know the author of the book but i saw the segment on "Good morning America" where Diane Sawyer had a personal trainer helping her work out....he came out and said that she (Diane Sawyer) lost more weight with just lifting compared to added cardio....so according to him "why waste your time with cardio which doesn't shed any weight.....and look at the cardio room in any gym....mostly overweight people sweating it out for what....nothing" I thought about it and said i kind of like the stress release that cardio gives me.....sort of balances out the lifting part.
Yea?beastmaster79 said:a weight workout helps your heart just as much as "cardio". cardio is for people who want to look like a marathon runner or for people who enjoy sport sinvolving cardio. i was really into cardio and it was not healthy.
if you lift weights a few times a week and eat little or no carbs you can be jacked.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Well that doesn't sound like any fun. No wonder they lose weight without any cardio, starvation typically has that effect on people.EFFORT said:I actually met the guy that wrote that book. Him and his crew went over the whole thing with me. Basically the reason the people doing it get results is because of the diet he has you on. Your eating a very small amount of food everyday and the circuit training is pretty intense. Its very strict. The whole no cardio thing is also there for business, a lot of people don't like cardio so seeing something that says they can get results without cardio really entices them to buy it, when in reality if they just fixed there diet and did there cardio they would still lose the fat. This is also geared towards "normal" population people that aren't trying to build some muscular body.
i agree. I don't think many people would even be able to do it without hiring him or his trainers. If there not able to eat 6 basic healthy meals a day without someone checking up on them how on earth are they going to be able to follow some strict starvation diet without someone checking up on them making sure there doing it.Francisco d'Anconia said:Well that doesn't sound like any fun. No wonder they lose weight without any cardio, starvation typically has that effect on people.
I'm curious how long do those people keep off the weight. Many times they are the ones most susceptible to yo-yo dieting.EFFORT said:i agree. I don't think many people would even be able to do it without hiring him or his trainers. If there not able to eat 6 basic healthy meals a day without someone checking up on them how on earth are they going to be able to follow some strict starvation diet without someone checking up on them making sure there doing it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
After they run their metabolism into the ground with a low calorie diet and go back to their normal eating habits, they probably gain 10 lbsFrancisco d'Anconia said:I'm curious how long do those people keep off the weight. Many times they are the ones most susceptible to yo-yo dieting.