"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cardinals Mascot Photo Controversy

Bible_Belt

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How dare you, Fredbird? I am just so offended.... :rolleyes:


http://kplr11.com/2015/05/22/cardinals-respond-to-fredbird-deadspin-controversy/

ST. LOUIS (KPLR) – Days after a sports blog posted a story about Fredbird holding up a ‘Police Lives Matter’ sign, the St. Louis Cardinals have responded to the controversy...

http://deadspin.com/your-racist-uncle-will-love-this-picture-of-the-cardina-1705776536

Of course Fredbird, the official mascot of the St. Louis Cardinals, would be the one sports mascot to attend an event hosted by the St. Louis Police department and hold up a “Police Lives Matter” sign. It was never going to be any other way.

(Here’s where some of you are going to say, “What, police lives don’t matter?” To which all we can say is, “Cut the ****.” Of course police lives matter, but used as a direct retort to the non-controversial idea that black lives matter, the phrase is an at best crypto-racist way of dismissing legitimate anger about police violence in black communities.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where on the sign did it say black lives don't matter? :crackup:

People need to get their panties out of a wad. The thing was probably hired and just there doing it's job. Chill out.
People have been asking a similar question when responding to those who b!tch about black lives matter. Where are the signs saying other lives don't matter? There are no such signs yet people want to fake being offending by those who want justice and accountability of those with power. People in general need to just stop trying to hijack a social movement for their own cause.

It's akin to certain straight people whining about gay pride or gay rights events...saying dumb stuff like "what about straight pride.... No one says that". As if straight people have to worry about legislation specifically targeting them for discrimination.
 

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Now I want to put signs up everywhere that say "Black Police Lives Matter."

That would confuse the hell out of everybody :D
 
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