"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Carbs making me tired?

Scought

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Hey guys,

Been lifting 5x/week and playing basketball twice a week.

I went low-carb a couple days this past week--I didn't really seem that tired or out of it as I thought I would. However, the morning I started back with higher carbs (had oatmeal) and than for lunch had salad with dressing, croutons, etc., I started to feel tired after the meal. I seemed to be in a deep fog, like the feeling one gets after a really great Thanksgiving dinner..or the feeling you get when you are more than buzzed and just about to be drunk. A sort of lethargic...'whoa' feeling going on.

Anyone else feel like carbs make them tired?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quagmire911

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Scought said:
Been lifting 5x/week
:eek:


Either I missed something, or your punishing your body. What does your weight training consist of, post a typical week.
 

Warboss Alex

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Roughly 20% of the world's population tolerate carbs, the rest don't. Your results suggest a poor insulin sensitivity, therefore you're probably better suited to lower carb diets.
 

Scought

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Five times a week isnt that bad.

Chest/Back/Legs/Shoulders/Arms.

I am not going to change my routine, because I find it effective and it gives me the right amount of time and recovery.

Anyway, the sensitivity thing: I guess may be I do. However, I have had carbs all my life and been fine. It's just when I cut back I notice a change when I go back "up."
 

Warboss Alex

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Carb tolerance worsens over time. If your body has trouble adjusting back to a higher carb diet then you don't need the extra carbs. But with a 5 day split (which I would NOT recommend but if you like it, stick with it) you'll need all the carbs you can get.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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