"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Carbs making me tired?

Scought

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Hey guys,

Been lifting 5x/week and playing basketball twice a week.

I went low-carb a couple days this past week--I didn't really seem that tired or out of it as I thought I would. However, the morning I started back with higher carbs (had oatmeal) and than for lunch had salad with dressing, croutons, etc., I started to feel tired after the meal. I seemed to be in a deep fog, like the feeling one gets after a really great Thanksgiving dinner..or the feeling you get when you are more than buzzed and just about to be drunk. A sort of lethargic...'whoa' feeling going on.

Anyone else feel like carbs make them tired?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quagmire911

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Scought said:
Been lifting 5x/week
:eek:


Either I missed something, or your punishing your body. What does your weight training consist of, post a typical week.
 

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Roughly 20% of the world's population tolerate carbs, the rest don't. Your results suggest a poor insulin sensitivity, therefore you're probably better suited to lower carb diets.
 

Scought

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Five times a week isnt that bad.

Chest/Back/Legs/Shoulders/Arms.

I am not going to change my routine, because I find it effective and it gives me the right amount of time and recovery.

Anyway, the sensitivity thing: I guess may be I do. However, I have had carbs all my life and been fine. It's just when I cut back I notice a change when I go back "up."
 

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Carb tolerance worsens over time. If your body has trouble adjusting back to a higher carb diet then you don't need the extra carbs. But with a 5 day split (which I would NOT recommend but if you like it, stick with it) you'll need all the carbs you can get.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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