"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Car question

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Would a girl that likes you care about the car you drive. My prom is that I drive a van...lol... its a 95 voyager. I think its a ok car but do girls?I have to admit its lil dirty inside the car. But I try to clean it up once a week. Well I was just wondering about this topic.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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skinnydart

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No, don't worry about it at all. If you likes you as a person, what kind of car you can afford really doesn't matter.
 

RaMar

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my opinion is that if you drive a really nice sports car you will get a few girls to look your way but it's not going to get you laid. On the other hand driving a ****ty car won't make a chick like you less.

The most important thing is the be pround of your car. Don't use it as an excuse. Make a lot of jokes about it (ie. You just wish you could afford a van like mine!) and you'll be just fine.
 

LikRetsam

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Oh... my....

Yes, your car is the only thing that will determine wether a chick will go out with you or like you. You better do something quick to buy the new 2015 Mercedez camry X7.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jakeyboy

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i borrow my bro's Mercedes Benz SLK for dates. somehow, it does impress the chicks.. -shrugs- its a symbol of status i guess.
 

xomel

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
i borrow my bro's Mercedes Benz SLK for dates. somehow, it does impress the chicks.. -shrugs- its a symbol of status i guess.
my car would smoke that pos.
 

jakeyboy

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whats your car?
 
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