"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Car pictures on OLD profiles

crgideon

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İs it lame or doushey to post pictures of your car on a OKcupid or POF profile?


İ just bought a 30k$ sports car a chick magnet for sure but I was already having succes on OLD sites.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tenacity

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Lol, I guess I'm lame. Because I sure do have my shirtless bathroom pics on there and pics of my Charger and Avenger.
 

HeadLightsOn

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They don't get to see my fun car for a while.

No car is going to 'get you chicks'.

Time to grow up.
Generally I agree with this, however if you have you and a part car shot in your OLD profile, I don't think it does any real harm.

Just don't make a focus of the car, or do a "look what I just bought!" type pic. THAT would be lame :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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El Payaso

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Don't.
 

Skyline

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İs it lame or doushey to post pictures of your car on a OKcupid or POF profile?


İ just bought a 30k$ sports car a chick magnet for sure but I was already having succes on OLD sites.


Unless you're rolling up in a car that has a unique chassis, like a Ferrari, Lamborghini, or any limited edition model, then you won't get any attention. And even then, all you'll get is looks and maybe a few pictures.

When it comes to cars, 99% of the time you'll just get the attention of guys. Women typically don't know squat about cars.
 

Lozboss

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Lame.

Selfies for any men is just lame. Especially shirtless.

Women even say it on their profiles.

It just screams 'Insecure' or 'small ****'
 
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