"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Car pictures on OLD profiles
- Thread starter crgideon
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tictac
Banned
No car is going to 'get you chicks'.
Time to grow up.
HeadLightsOn
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Generally I agree with this, however if you have you and a part car shot in your OLD profile, I don't think it does any real harm.
Just don't make a focus of the car, or do a "look what I just bought!" type pic. THAT would be lame
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Unless you're rolling up in a car that has a unique chassis, like a Ferrari, Lamborghini, or any limited edition model, then you won't get any attention. And even then, all you'll get is looks and maybe a few pictures.
When it comes to cars, 99% of the time you'll just get the attention of guys. Women typically don't know squat about cars.
Lozboss
Master Don Juan
Selfies for any men is just lame. Especially shirtless.
Women even say it on their profiles.
It just screams 'Insecure' or 'small ****'