"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Car pictures on OLD profiles
- Thread starter crgideon
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tictac
Banned
No car is going to 'get you chicks'.
Time to grow up.
HeadLightsOn
Senior Don Juan
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Generally I agree with this, however if you have you and a part car shot in your OLD profile, I don't think it does any real harm.
Just don't make a focus of the car, or do a "look what I just bought!" type pic. THAT would be lame
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Unless you're rolling up in a car that has a unique chassis, like a Ferrari, Lamborghini, or any limited edition model, then you won't get any attention. And even then, all you'll get is looks and maybe a few pictures.
When it comes to cars, 99% of the time you'll just get the attention of guys. Women typically don't know squat about cars.
Lozboss
Master Don Juan
Selfies for any men is just lame. Especially shirtless.
Women even say it on their profiles.
It just screams 'Insecure' or 'small ****'