"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Car or no Car?

ProDJ26

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I NEED A CAR!!!! I've been saving up some money and everybody m(mainly family) has been trying to give me advice. Everybody "wants" me to get a cheap car (you know the ones you buy for like 600-800bucks?)

I know plenty of people who pay more monthly fixing up there car rather than paying monthly payments. I just dont see the point. Any advice on this?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Depends on how handy you are and how lazy.

If it were me I'd at least spend a couple thousand, but remember that cars depreciate and eventually get sold. Buy something that's respectable...that's really all you need. Don't try to impress women with your car. More girls were impressed with my POS Trans Am than my Acura. :p
 

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lol thats the thing everybody knows I like the women BUT I'm not trying to get a car for that. I want something to get around in yet at the same time I don't want a piece of crap hand me down.
 

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Spend about $2-3 thousand. You can get a car that is not a complete joke, but will not depreciate much more. Civics are popular because they are dependable and cheap. I like old Preludes as a cheap car alternative.
 

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This is off topic but you're posting in the wrong forum, this is mature man.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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F7ck cars get a motorcycle! Get a manual it's SOOO FUN! Just becareful of jealous fat ass drivers and make sure you wear a nice helmet/gear incase a crazy assh'le bumps you.
 

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Can't you get a loan and make monthly payments? Use the money you've saved up for a down payment.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Spend about $2-3 thousand. You can get a car that is not a complete joke, but will not depreciate much more. Civics are popular because they are dependable and cheap. I like old Preludes as a cheap car alternative.
i agree. you can get a good car and drive it for a few years before something happens that needs big maintenance usually.
i prefer to do this rather than make payments. i don't like payments at all.
 

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Get a job! And then buy a nice car. Don't settle for a 2 or 3 thousand dollar piece of s.hit, much less a $600-$800 piece of s.hit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ValleyDJing said:
Get a job! And then buy a nice car. Don't settle for a 2 or 3 thousand dollar piece of s.hit, much less a $600-$800 piece of s.hit.
Most college kids will only need a sh'tty car for 4 years and once they graduate and get a decent job, they'll buy a new car. It's impossible to buy a decent car (ex. used BMW) without spending more than 10k.
 

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So your parents (guardians) kicked you out of the house with no wheels (even a modest one)? Man, some parents are rough these days!

I might not get my son a brand new car someday (in fact, i probably wont), but dam*, he's my blood - i'll give him something!!!!
 
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