"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Car Conversations

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I needed a little help with this, normally I go out with girls who live about 30 min away from me and it’s a long time to be in a car when driving to and from my place and out to other places. A lot of times I take them out on my bike when we are going to quick places to hang out (so this way we cant really talk much) but my main question is, should I try to be funny and keep up good conversations while in the car? Or is it alright if we talk and there are quiet times on and off? Hopefully you guys understand what I am trying to ask.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am always afraid of it will be really akward in the car if theres no talking, but its never been that way for me. when ur driving theres always something to talk about: funny things that have happened while driving, ****head drivers, all sortsa stuff.
 

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conversation in the car was something I did worry about before...but there really are lots of topics- from people watching, the scenery around you, driving skills you can C+F that, music conversations, it's easier then sitting in a restaurant face to face
 

Dukester

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Originally posted by RiceHapa888
[B it's easier then sitting in a restaurant face to face [/B]
ya, cuz in a car, you should keep ya eyes on the road as much as possible
 

DJDamage

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In the car you play games my friend.

You put the music on a station you both like and you try to guess quickly the name of the band and the name of the song.

who ever shouts out the names first get a point each.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by DJDamage
In the car you play games my friend.

You put the music on a station you both like and you try to guess quickly the name of the band and the name of the song.

who ever shouts out the names first get a point each.
A+++ idea i like it not that i have to wory about this just yet.
 
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