"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can't trust selfie pics

ThisNThat

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I saw this woman, she had a cute face...all pics were selfies. We started chatting online. But then I noticed all her selfies were taken above her head.

So I went to look her up on FB, dammit, every SINGLE photo she has is a selfie...NOTHING from the waist up. She covered all basises. lol. I did though, however, saw a straight on head shot, from the chest up...and she looked a little bit chubbier than the rest of her selfies...so it has me worried.

Sounds like she made an effort even on social media to hide her weight, yes?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wifehunter

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Hiding weight? Lol!:p

She's only going to disappoint any prospects that are not "chubby chasers".
 

devilkingx2

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it's called the fat girl angle shot, invented long ago, when myspace was popular
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hedge

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I met a chick on Bumble once. I learned just what the "Myspace Angles" and portrait-only shots hide. This chick and I meet up and she's at least twice my size. Not to mention the frumpy white blouse she was wearing. Her forehead and top of her hair were drenched and her shoulders are neck area were clearly damp with sweat. It was an average, summer day. She texted me the next day saying it was a really nice date (no, it wasn't). I was polite and told her there wasn't any chemistry between us.
 

Building_and_Loan

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Yeah I've been burned twice now on selfies that were out of date. Banged both of them anyway but still, I was less than pleased when these girls showed up looking nothing like their pictures taken in college.
 

playa99

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I call it the Fangle (the fat angle.)
 
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