"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was on this date with this girl and we got onto the subject of sex and the like... always good to talk about i feel. Anyway, she starts to tell me something and then is all like "you cant tell anyone i told you that, you are the first person i told"

Ok, ive known her a for a long time and there has always been electricity... but does this mean ive fallen into the ****ing zone of death if she told me this?? i mean, surely you would only tell a close friend a secret. Oh, and the secret was about her licking out her girl 'friend' once so there is a there a possibilty she is just tryng to turn up the pace and turn me on? or am i finished?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You think too much. Ignore it. She probably tells guys that and says "You're the first person I told". Don't worry about it. Get with the broad already. Long time? Electricity? Asking if you're in the friend zone? Keep waiting and you will be.
 
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Well she told u a "secret" which means she "trusts" you,good or bad thats how i perceive it.Next she told you about her sexual adventures with a female friend of hers,so long story short she indirecty told u she's a lesbian...which is not a good sign..pretty much the same mentality as "i have a boyfriend".Now she made you promise not to tell anyone,which could be perceived as a)She does not like that that event happened or b)She was bs'ing you about that event.It would also help to define how long is "a long time"
 
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A girl getting on another girl does not mean she's lesbian. I've been with a few girls that are all for screwing around with another broad. It's called expirimenting. Some girls like it, some don't. By no means does it mean she's a lesbian.
 
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first of all... that is hot man. haha

unfortunately, however... I've always felt that when a girl starts "confiding" in you... or telling you stories that she wouldn't want people to know... it sort of signals a subtle slippage on her part towards the LJBF area.

if a girl wants you... or is considering hooking up with you, she doesn't let embarassing things slip like this, only "friends" tell secrets. so if i were you, I'd get this girl back on the right track soon.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When a women tells you secrets, this soon. That's not good. Friendship zone. Next time she try's to tell you something private, cut her off and tell her you don't need to know that.
 
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jordan said:
When a women tells you secrets, this soon. That's not good. Friendship zone. Next time she try's to tell you something private, cut her off and tell her you don't need to know that.
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He just said he knew the girl for a long time. how is it too soon ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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