"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheJoe

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I was on this date with this girl and we got onto the subject of sex and the like... always good to talk about i feel. Anyway, she starts to tell me something and then is all like "you cant tell anyone i told you that, you are the first person i told"

Ok, ive known her a for a long time and there has always been electricity... but does this mean ive fallen into the ****ing zone of death if she told me this?? i mean, surely you would only tell a close friend a secret. Oh, and the secret was about her licking out her girl 'friend' once so there is a there a possibilty she is just tryng to turn up the pace and turn me on? or am i finished?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skilla_Staz

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You think too much. Ignore it. She probably tells guys that and says "You're the first person I told". Don't worry about it. Get with the broad already. Long time? Electricity? Asking if you're in the friend zone? Keep waiting and you will be.
 

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Well she told u a "secret" which means she "trusts" you,good or bad thats how i perceive it.Next she told you about her sexual adventures with a female friend of hers,so long story short she indirecty told u she's a lesbian...which is not a good sign..pretty much the same mentality as "i have a boyfriend".Now she made you promise not to tell anyone,which could be perceived as a)She does not like that that event happened or b)She was bs'ing you about that event.It would also help to define how long is "a long time"
 

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A girl getting on another girl does not mean she's lesbian. I've been with a few girls that are all for screwing around with another broad. It's called expirimenting. Some girls like it, some don't. By no means does it mean she's a lesbian.
 

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first of all... that is hot man. haha

unfortunately, however... I've always felt that when a girl starts "confiding" in you... or telling you stories that she wouldn't want people to know... it sort of signals a subtle slippage on her part towards the LJBF area.

if a girl wants you... or is considering hooking up with you, she doesn't let embarassing things slip like this, only "friends" tell secrets. so if i were you, I'd get this girl back on the right track soon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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When a women tells you secrets, this soon. That's not good. Friendship zone. Next time she try's to tell you something private, cut her off and tell her you don't need to know that.
 

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jordan said:
When a women tells you secrets, this soon. That's not good. Friendship zone. Next time she try's to tell you something private, cut her off and tell her you don't need to know that.

He just said he knew the girl for a long time. how is it too soon ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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