"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can't tell when I'm good looking

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spesmilitis

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Well, I got a hair cut that was way too short, and I felt that I'm not as good looking as I can be. But, every girl I talk to really complemented me on my hair cut, they said its the perfect length and I should keep it that way. I asked it them if its even better when it was normal length, and they said it was.

This is kind of weird to me, that I can't can't tell when I'm at my optimal looks. Has this ever happened to anyone else?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah. When I grow my hair long, girls say I look really good. But I hate my hair long, and I think it makes me look weird. So I rarely do it.
 
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I bought clippers and shave my own head with a #2 every few days. I don't care anymore if others think it is good looking or not. I like it short, it costs NOTHING so I save money, I use less Shampoo+Conditioner = money saved, I dont have hat head, bad hair days or dandruff. Need I say more?
 
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?? hm get a personal stylist whose got an eye for hairstyles that costs 100-200 a visit
 
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