"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can't spell Sex without the EX

Ricky

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Guys I have no doubt been a wuss about one of my exes, who I still love but lives far away. I still entertain some hope of getting her, but I am moving on, and after I finish up with my career goal I will be posting field reports about the new women.

While that saga goes on, another ex who I've remained friends with but have no interest in (i dated her for 3 years), calls me alot.
I still care about her as a friend and have been helping her through a rough time because I care. If I didn't care I would be her emotional tampon, but believe me I am cognizant of this and only answer because I care.

In any event she would give up the goods to me any time I go back to my hometown. But I just can't do it, because i know she's been with other guys since me and I don't want to go back to that.


How many of you use the ex for booty call. I'm thinking it's not a good idea on many levels.

I have one other ex that I would definitely **** again. I may have to do that cuz she is as close to an HB10 that I've had.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I never go back but thats just me. Once they become an "ex" usually the reason makes her unattractive to me.
 

Snowyk

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I have once.
We wound up being **** buddies for like 8 months after we broke up. It didnt end all that well.

She had a pregnancy scare and then blamed me etc etc.

All came good in the end though. I still talk to her all the time.

The sex with ex's thing can get kinda complicated, depending on how long it has been since you broke up and why you broke up etc etc.
 
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