"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can't spell Sex without the EX

Ricky

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Guys I have no doubt been a wuss about one of my exes, who I still love but lives far away. I still entertain some hope of getting her, but I am moving on, and after I finish up with my career goal I will be posting field reports about the new women.

While that saga goes on, another ex who I've remained friends with but have no interest in (i dated her for 3 years), calls me alot.
I still care about her as a friend and have been helping her through a rough time because I care. If I didn't care I would be her emotional tampon, but believe me I am cognizant of this and only answer because I care.

In any event she would give up the goods to me any time I go back to my hometown. But I just can't do it, because i know she's been with other guys since me and I don't want to go back to that.


How many of you use the ex for booty call. I'm thinking it's not a good idea on many levels.

I have one other ex that I would definitely **** again. I may have to do that cuz she is as close to an HB10 that I've had.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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flexion_

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I never go back but thats just me. Once they become an "ex" usually the reason makes her unattractive to me.
 

Snowyk

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I have once.
We wound up being **** buddies for like 8 months after we broke up. It didnt end all that well.

She had a pregnancy scare and then blamed me etc etc.

All came good in the end though. I still talk to her all the time.

The sex with ex's thing can get kinda complicated, depending on how long it has been since you broke up and why you broke up etc etc.
 
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