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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Can't smile if we make eye contact

DamHE

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Hi,

I have trouble smiling once I make eye contact with a girl because she usually looks away pretty quickly or I am just too nervous. I've been trying to smile at them if they keep looking but I always overthink it, like "if I smile too big it's weird but if I don't smile at all it's still weird". So I was thinking, what if you were smiling as you set your eyes on hers? Would this still be effective or do I need to force myself to not be nervous when making eye contact?

If you have no idea what I'm talking about but have any tips that is fine too.

Thanks.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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well.. I fu*cking suck at eye contact AND smiling, but...
smile before you look at them. like when they notice you, you're already smiling.

this probably will work every time if you don't have a creepy smile!
 

Messarger

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I disagree with the above user actually. Smiling before her looking at you would mean that your smile is not directed at her. You should mantain eye contact for maybe 1-2 seconds, then give a warm genuine smile. And after that dont stop there. Open her if she smiles back. If she turns away, make fun about it. So far i've never experience a girl turning away when i smile at her genuinely.
 

Rata Blanca

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You know smile isn't the only option you can look at her with suprise look, show her your tongue, blink one eye, etc
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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