"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can't Sleep

Caldus

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Let's see, I woke up pretty early today, worked out earlier in the day, only had caffeine around dinner time, and still can't sleep. I'm pissed now b/c it pretty much cancels out my whole workout I did today if I can't sleep right? Will my muscles still grow even if I don't sleep (like will they still grow the next day I sleep again)? And I hate how sleep is always such a difficult task for me these days. I've read all of the tips out there and don't want to resort to sleeping pills...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Take a rest, muscles need rest. If you can't sleep its becuase its in your head, relax, drink and watch TV or something then you'll feel the sleep come on.
 

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I try but I can't. It's too late now as I got class pretty soon. My question is will my muscles still grow if I sleep fine the next day despite not sleeping at all today?
 

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No, all your muscles will shrink and implode, creating a black vortex.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sleep Trick

Sleep Trick

I used to have trouble sleeping also but since I started doing this I've been sleeping great. I'd used to find myself up at 2 in the morning watching Renegade re-runs.

You need a radio or tv in your room (which I know CAN cause sleeping problems but not if you use them this way).

Put on a channel that is not TOO interesting (a news channel is great). Turn the volume so you can just BARELY hear it clearly.
Set the sleep timer (I usually set it to 30 mins). Lie facing away from the tv/radio and then just listen. I've never lasted the 30 mins.

I think when people start having problems sleeping , going to bed becomes a source of worry for them ( added on to all the things we have to worry about in life). They start worrying they will not get enough sleep and will not be able to perform in work or college the next day. Also when you have some quiet time to think other worries find a way into your head. Your job, finances and love life might be some common ones.

The more they worry the harder it is to get to sleep. Especially if they are looking at a clock and saying "If I fall asleep right now I will only get 4 hours sleep, 3 hours,2 hours.......".

I think this trick works because you are not listening to your inner monologue , reminding you of all your worries. You are distracted by the quiet voice of the radio/tv person. Your body is relaxed and because you are not worrying about anything you just drift off into sleep.

I'd be interested to know if this works as well for anybody else.

p.s. do all the other stuff as well, avoiding caffine late at night, avoiding working out too late , dark room etc etc
 

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are you doing any situps before bed?

I was doing this for the longest time and i gave it up because my sleep was being affected. I went to a sports doctor because of a pulled muscle. He asked me about my sleeping patterns. I told him that i dont sleep well. He also asked if i was doing any ab workouts before i went to sleep. I said..yup.

If you are doing the abs workouts before bed you should stop. I stopped and now i sleep so much better. I do abs in the morning now.
 

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like the tv thing...if you try to stay awake youll fall asleep...if you try to fall asleep youll stay awake....it happens alot but not all the time..just try it...start reading abook...youll fall asleep...listen to music..do the tv thing...praying works for me...say a bunch of hail mary's and eventually youll start drifting off..try to stay awake..lol...and youll fall asleep
 

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warm milk with nutmeg
warm tea with milk in it
marchino cherries
warm turkey sandwhich

all make you sleepy
 
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