"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can't sleep when I drink alcohol

No Leaf Clover

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why does this always happen? I'm a social drinker and love going out with friends, meeting girls and having a good time. The problem is when the party's over and I come home, I just cannot fall asleep. If I get home at 2 am, I won't fall sleep until well after 6. It's not like I always get sloppy drunk either, sometimes I might have 6-8 drinks. I know alcohol can affect sleep, but it happens to me every time. It's to the point now drinking isn't even fun anymore because my sleep schedule will be ruined.

anybody else have to deal with this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nicholas

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I guess it's the adrenaline. You go out have fun, and then when you come back home you feel like you should've stayed and had some more fun.
 

ARrocket

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I think it's fairly common. What usually happens to me is I'll fall asleep right away, but then after a couple of hours, I'm up...and I toss and turn the rest of the night, not really getting much sleep.
 

Darth

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I think volume has a lot to do with it. 6-8 drinks is too much IMO. When I had that much (which has only been a couple times in my life) I stayed up for most of the night.
 
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