"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can't sleep when I drink alcohol

No Leaf Clover

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why does this always happen? I'm a social drinker and love going out with friends, meeting girls and having a good time. The problem is when the party's over and I come home, I just cannot fall asleep. If I get home at 2 am, I won't fall sleep until well after 6. It's not like I always get sloppy drunk either, sometimes I might have 6-8 drinks. I know alcohol can affect sleep, but it happens to me every time. It's to the point now drinking isn't even fun anymore because my sleep schedule will be ruined.

anybody else have to deal with this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nicholas

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I guess it's the adrenaline. You go out have fun, and then when you come back home you feel like you should've stayed and had some more fun.
 

ARrocket

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I think it's fairly common. What usually happens to me is I'll fall asleep right away, but then after a couple of hours, I'm up...and I toss and turn the rest of the night, not really getting much sleep.
 

Darth

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I think volume has a lot to do with it. 6-8 drinks is too much IMO. When I had that much (which has only been a couple times in my life) I stayed up for most of the night.
 
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