Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can't Seal The Deal

CORVETTE06

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Im 20 years old and I cant seal the deal. I have no problem meeting new girls and going on dates with them. For some reason I never get any girls just to 'hook up' with and bang.

It seems like I just take them out on dates and do all that stuff but without f-in them. What is wrong with what I am doing? Theres no doubt that they are into me. I need help with initiating the 'lets f--k' part. Please help
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChrizZ

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CORVETTE06 said:
Im 20 years old and I cant seal the deal. I have no problem meeting new girls and going on dates with them. For some reason I never get any girls just to 'hook up' with and bang.

It seems like I just take them out on dates and do all that stuff but without f-in them. What is wrong with what I am doing? Theres no doubt that they are into me. I need help with initiating the 'lets f--k' part. Please help
how about "I had a great time, but now lets have some sex" (I'm serious!)
 

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How are you ending the date. Is it an awkward good by at her front door with mom and dad waiting inside.

Find a reason to go back to your place. Initiate Kino and stay focused.

Dont let your past failures shape your image of your skillz. Decide right now that you are gonna close the deal with the next girl you go out with. If you dont make that decision it wont happen.
 
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