"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can't Seal The Deal

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CORVETTE06

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Im 20 years old and I cant seal the deal. I have no problem meeting new girls and going on dates with them. For some reason I never get any girls just to 'hook up' with and bang.

It seems like I just take them out on dates and do all that stuff but without f-in them. What is wrong with what I am doing? Theres no doubt that they are into me. I need help with initiating the 'lets f--k' part. Please help
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CORVETTE06 said:
Im 20 years old and I cant seal the deal. I have no problem meeting new girls and going on dates with them. For some reason I never get any girls just to 'hook up' with and bang.

It seems like I just take them out on dates and do all that stuff but without f-in them. What is wrong with what I am doing? Theres no doubt that they are into me. I need help with initiating the 'lets f--k' part. Please help
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how about "I had a great time, but now lets have some sex" (I'm serious!)
 
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How are you ending the date. Is it an awkward good by at her front door with mom and dad waiting inside.

Find a reason to go back to your place. Initiate Kino and stay focused.

Dont let your past failures shape your image of your skillz. Decide right now that you are gonna close the deal with the next girl you go out with. If you dont make that decision it wont happen.
 
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