"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can't Seal The Deal

CORVETTE06

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Im 20 years old and I cant seal the deal. I have no problem meeting new girls and going on dates with them. For some reason I never get any girls just to 'hook up' with and bang.

It seems like I just take them out on dates and do all that stuff but without f-in them. What is wrong with what I am doing? Theres no doubt that they are into me. I need help with initiating the 'lets f--k' part. Please help
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ChrizZ

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CORVETTE06 said:
Im 20 years old and I cant seal the deal. I have no problem meeting new girls and going on dates with them. For some reason I never get any girls just to 'hook up' with and bang.

It seems like I just take them out on dates and do all that stuff but without f-in them. What is wrong with what I am doing? Theres no doubt that they are into me. I need help with initiating the 'lets f--k' part. Please help
how about "I had a great time, but now lets have some sex" (I'm serious!)
 

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How are you ending the date. Is it an awkward good by at her front door with mom and dad waiting inside.

Find a reason to go back to your place. Initiate Kino and stay focused.

Dont let your past failures shape your image of your skillz. Decide right now that you are gonna close the deal with the next girl you go out with. If you dont make that decision it wont happen.
 
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