"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is annoying man. The virgin girl im with has been wanting to be popped but ive tried twice now and every time i go in she screams and tells me to stop. I got her to suck me off (her first time )and stuff but i n the end i was frustrated by her. Her constant screaming put me off. Due to this i took it out on her and told her shes not good enough etc. She cried and asked me what she should do and what other girls do that she can do.

Its annoying. Does it take time to pop a virgin?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most of the times yes, it will take a lot of comforting and careful actions.

With that "pop" it sound like you are talking about a pimple, not a woman.
 
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dude have you ever heard of foreplay or lube ?

the vagina can stretch to accomodate almost any size penis but youve either got to get her super horny or use a bucket load of lube
 
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Omfg, you told her she's not good enough!! Yeah, that's how you make a virgin extremely insecure about herself. It's probably the worst thing you could possibly have done.

Anyways, to the actual technical stuff. Feel your way in, if you meet resistance take it very slow until you can easily slide it. If you just push on you're ripping on her vaginal walls, that hurts like hell for them.
 
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Grewd said:
Omfg, you told her she's not good enough!! Yeah, that's how you make a virgin extremely insecure about herself. It's probably the worst thing you could possibly have done.

Anyways, to the actual technical stuff. Feel your way in, if you meet resistance take it very slow until you can easily slide it. If you just push on you're ripping on her vaginal walls, that hurts like hell for them.
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Yes but an intact hymen must be breached, so it's best to pass right thru it. My first wife was a virgin and after breaking thru the hymen, I penetrated fully and stayed still for her to accomidate me. The first time sucks for them no matter how you do it. After 2 or 3 more times it became pleasureable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grewd said:
Omfg, you told her she's not good enough!! Yeah, that's how you make a virgin extremely insecure about herself. It's probably the worst thing you could possibly have done.

Anyways, to the actual technical stuff. Feel your way in, if you meet resistance take it very slow until you can easily slide it. If you just push on you're ripping on her vaginal walls, that hurts like hell for them.
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I knw. I hugged her after and just told her that i want to have sex with her as i do really like her.

I just feel like a faliure. frustrated. i want to pop her so bad but it just hasnt happened. Maybe im overthinking it ut this is my first time too.
 
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You need to get any virgin super wet. Go down on them. If you try twice and doesn't work then the girl just needs to get it out of the way. Lube could help in addition.
 
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Yeah. You have to get her extremely horny and wet and aroused. Make her want it so bad that she's begging you to put it in.

On the flip side, don't feel as if it's your duty to "pop" her.
 
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Alpheta said:
I knw. I hugged her after and just told her that i want to have sex with her as i do really like her.

I just feel like a faliure. frustrated. i want to pop her so bad but it just hasnt happened. Maybe im overthinking it ut this is my first time too.
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Oh you're a virgin too, I should have guessed, you did sound inexperienced. Forget about the not good enough thing now, if she has forgiven you that's cool. Don't repeat it though, it's really harsh.

First of all calm down and grow some patience, you don't become a pro over night but it doesn't have to take that much practice either. Just be a little more controlled next time, no point having her associate sex with pain. Are you doing any foreplay? Getting each other aroused and ready to fvck? Is she even wet, have you noticed?
 
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I'm with you. I've done I think 3 virgins in my life and it always comes with it's challenges. The first 2-3 times for me with any virgin have never been all that great. These other guys have given you good suggestions. Keep with it and you and her will be good to go in no time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Was suggesting I'm surprised he had even that... for the type of question he was asking... You, back of the line.
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Do I give a phuck? It's a genuine question and I feel down about it. This forum is for discussing these issues even if you think it's Petty And below you. Not everyone is a Don Juan like yourself, competing who has the most likes on a forum lol.
 
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