Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This is annoying man. The virgin girl im with has been wanting to be popped but ive tried twice now and every time i go in she screams and tells me to stop. I got her to suck me off (her first time )and stuff but i n the end i was frustrated by her. Her constant screaming put me off. Due to this i took it out on her and told her shes not good enough etc. She cried and asked me what she should do and what other girls do that she can do.

Its annoying. Does it take time to pop a virgin?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most of the times yes, it will take a lot of comforting and careful actions.

With that "pop" it sound like you are talking about a pimple, not a woman.
 
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dude have you ever heard of foreplay or lube ?

the vagina can stretch to accomodate almost any size penis but youve either got to get her super horny or use a bucket load of lube
 
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Omfg, you told her she's not good enough!! Yeah, that's how you make a virgin extremely insecure about herself. It's probably the worst thing you could possibly have done.

Anyways, to the actual technical stuff. Feel your way in, if you meet resistance take it very slow until you can easily slide it. If you just push on you're ripping on her vaginal walls, that hurts like hell for them.
 
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Grewd said:
Omfg, you told her she's not good enough!! Yeah, that's how you make a virgin extremely insecure about herself. It's probably the worst thing you could possibly have done.

Anyways, to the actual technical stuff. Feel your way in, if you meet resistance take it very slow until you can easily slide it. If you just push on you're ripping on her vaginal walls, that hurts like hell for them.
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Yes but an intact hymen must be breached, so it's best to pass right thru it. My first wife was a virgin and after breaking thru the hymen, I penetrated fully and stayed still for her to accomidate me. The first time sucks for them no matter how you do it. After 2 or 3 more times it became pleasureable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grewd said:
Omfg, you told her she's not good enough!! Yeah, that's how you make a virgin extremely insecure about herself. It's probably the worst thing you could possibly have done.

Anyways, to the actual technical stuff. Feel your way in, if you meet resistance take it very slow until you can easily slide it. If you just push on you're ripping on her vaginal walls, that hurts like hell for them.
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I knw. I hugged her after and just told her that i want to have sex with her as i do really like her.

I just feel like a faliure. frustrated. i want to pop her so bad but it just hasnt happened. Maybe im overthinking it ut this is my first time too.
 
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You need to get any virgin super wet. Go down on them. If you try twice and doesn't work then the girl just needs to get it out of the way. Lube could help in addition.
 
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Yeah. You have to get her extremely horny and wet and aroused. Make her want it so bad that she's begging you to put it in.

On the flip side, don't feel as if it's your duty to "pop" her.
 
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Alpheta said:
I knw. I hugged her after and just told her that i want to have sex with her as i do really like her.

I just feel like a faliure. frustrated. i want to pop her so bad but it just hasnt happened. Maybe im overthinking it ut this is my first time too.
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Oh you're a virgin too, I should have guessed, you did sound inexperienced. Forget about the not good enough thing now, if she has forgiven you that's cool. Don't repeat it though, it's really harsh.

First of all calm down and grow some patience, you don't become a pro over night but it doesn't have to take that much practice either. Just be a little more controlled next time, no point having her associate sex with pain. Are you doing any foreplay? Getting each other aroused and ready to fvck? Is she even wet, have you noticed?
 
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I'm with you. I've done I think 3 virgins in my life and it always comes with it's challenges. The first 2-3 times for me with any virgin have never been all that great. These other guys have given you good suggestions. Keep with it and you and her will be good to go in no time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mot1veProgress said:
Was suggesting I'm surprised he had even that... for the type of question he was asking... You, back of the line.
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Do I give a phuck? It's a genuine question and I feel down about it. This forum is for discussing these issues even if you think it's Petty And below you. Not everyone is a Don Juan like yourself, competing who has the most likes on a forum lol.
 
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