"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can't Go Clubbing because I am FAT!?!?!?!

Alle_Gory

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SharinganUser said:
EDIT: Right now I weigh about 108 kilos. This is a video I am in http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1jO8AIIH8k. I am definitely not morbidly obese.
In that video you are in between chubby and fat. From the looks of your body, you have a good base for weightlifting. You should respond well to it.

Now if everyone says you are fat, you are fat. Different place, different norms.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stop going to gay clubs? Unless you are a fag, nevermind then.

Anyway, layoff the fast food, beer, bla bla...
 

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Er you're not morbidly obese but you're looking pretty unhealthy. If you're living in China then not many other people will be fat so that's probably why it gets pointed out so much...

By the way if you want to lose weight cardio and gym combined are a lot better than 90% of body weight exercises.
 

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Meh youre not fat at all :S kinda chunky but not a big deal. Just start exercising a bit more
 

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Don Shinra said:
Stop going to gay clubs? Unless you are a fag, nevermind then.

Anyway, layoff the fast food, beer, bla bla...

Dude I am not going to gay clubs. The men here in china out number the women by 10's of millions. It doesn't matter what club I go to, there is going to be gays there.

Uhm... Why are you complaining if you want to do the same thing? Actually, now that I think about it, do you make fun of people often? Because if you do, they might do the same to you, thinking it's normal for you and you won't take it seriously.

I don't really want to do that. I am just angry and bitter. I don't think I'll do that once things get better. I am not really that kind of person. I don't make fun of people's appearance or things that I think might offend them. Besides these are almost random strangers that are harrassing me, they have no idea what I think is normal or if I will take it seriously.

I am actually feeling better about it today. I went out to the clubs last night and no one bothered me, I didn't drink much but I danced a lot and had a good time, made a few approachs but got shot down. I am going to go for 3-6 hour walks everyday and do atleast 100 push ups and 50 sit ups to start off. Then for every piece of "bad" food I eat, I'll have to do 100 more push ups. I'll also look for a gym in my area.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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