"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can't get past the physical

lordson

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There was a situation once many years ago when there was this girl in my uni class.

We became friends, and she admitted that at first she didn't like me at all, but we became close-ish friends, and one day we were in the common room, there wasn't enough seats so we just spooned on the couch together.

This kinda started off something a little, it was like a un-spoken sexual tension between us for a few weeks after that, but neither of us said anything.

Anyway i started liking the girl, pretty sure she started liking me too i'm quite certain, but she was about a 4/10, objectively, but the fact that i liked her for who she was it made her about a 6/10 in my eyes, still nothing great.

So in the end, I did not act on it and just let it past because i thought to myself, i can't be seen in public with her, or let my friends see me with her. but privately i wouldn't have an issue with her looks, well not really anyway; i wasn't attracted to her looks at all really, maybe slightly because i liked her. I'm about a 7-8/10.

But yeah, we would have been good together i think, our personalities suited and both liked each other for who they were.

just couldn't get past the physical. i liked her alot really, now that i think about it. oh well

This happened to anybody else?
 

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tsmith2334

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Yea it has. I once worked with a girl that had a cute face and a really cool personality. She was real funny, and I could make her laugh. There was the potential for something, but I never pursued because she was ridiculously skinny. Not slender like a model, but toothpick thin. She had the body of a 12 year old and I couldn't get past it.
 

War Against Betaism

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Yeah, happened to me plenty of times. The worst is when you meet them from myspace and you see them up front and you get really disappointed.
 
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