Hey guys, I need advice/reframing help on this issue.
I keep focusing on my looks; I cannot get over the mindset that my looks are pretty much f.ucking up my game. here's my picture:
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZKRBER&key=UDK.
Most people rate me a 5, with some rating me a 6-7. I have a cute girlfriend who thinks I'm attractive, yet I feel so insecure about my looks, especially when getting rejected when I sarge.
I have been doing my approaches (Adventures of an RAFC) but I still feel that there's something i should do to improve my looks.
I try and look my best as much as possible - contacts, groomed with slight stubble, hair slicked back (i even get $40 haircuts), clothes are okay... maybe I could use a little help, but I think I dress slightly better than the average male.
Can game really be nearly independent of looks? Or does a man's attractiveness improve with his game because of subtle changes in his appearance?
I'm thinking of asking HBFriend what it would take for a chick like her to want to f.uck the shyt out of me the minute she sees me. is this a good idea, or should i be guided by the masculine DJs/PUAs on this site? She may say one thing and really mean another, and I don't want to fall into that trap.
Is it even worth me asking "How do I look better" or should i focus on "How do i pickup girls"? For the record, I just want to learn to get girls. I am already doing things for myself, this is just the focus of my self-improvement at the moment. I just want to fix it and move on with my life.
How do I stop thinking this way? OR How do I make myself more phsycially attractive?
I'm working out, trying to clear up skin, and trying to get healthy already, yet any advice you may have would greatly be appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
I keep focusing on my looks; I cannot get over the mindset that my looks are pretty much f.ucking up my game. here's my picture:
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZKRBER&key=UDK.
Most people rate me a 5, with some rating me a 6-7. I have a cute girlfriend who thinks I'm attractive, yet I feel so insecure about my looks, especially when getting rejected when I sarge.
I have been doing my approaches (Adventures of an RAFC) but I still feel that there's something i should do to improve my looks.
I try and look my best as much as possible - contacts, groomed with slight stubble, hair slicked back (i even get $40 haircuts), clothes are okay... maybe I could use a little help, but I think I dress slightly better than the average male.
Can game really be nearly independent of looks? Or does a man's attractiveness improve with his game because of subtle changes in his appearance?
I'm thinking of asking HBFriend what it would take for a chick like her to want to f.uck the shyt out of me the minute she sees me. is this a good idea, or should i be guided by the masculine DJs/PUAs on this site? She may say one thing and really mean another, and I don't want to fall into that trap.
Is it even worth me asking "How do I look better" or should i focus on "How do i pickup girls"? For the record, I just want to learn to get girls. I am already doing things for myself, this is just the focus of my self-improvement at the moment. I just want to fix it and move on with my life.
How do I stop thinking this way? OR How do I make myself more phsycially attractive?
I'm working out, trying to clear up skin, and trying to get healthy already, yet any advice you may have would greatly be appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
