"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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can't follow this stream of thought

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So...6 months ago I told this girl I can't just be her friend cuz I'm too attracted to her goods. And she said, OK bye then.
Then now, she calls me...then she asks me to hang out. She picks me up, we eat then go to her place.
5 minutes later she's all over me...making out, etc....I did everything to her except sex.
She begs and pleads...super sexy...but I don't give in. I had no condoms.
Then she gets all mad. Says, "what do you think hanging out means?"

I'm like, whoa...wtf...
Can't figure it out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She realized that she might as well give you what you want and not miss out. If she wasn't attracted, she would not give 2 fvcks...

Well she's right, you had to come prepared. Hopefully next time, you will get the job done !
 
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LoL, thanks for this - it gave me an idea to record a podcast entitled "ALWAYS CARRY PROTECTION." I've had more than enough girls who initially want to hook up with me end up doing so months later, and I ALWAYS carry at least 2 condoms on me. Heck, even now that I have a girlfriend, I keep 'em on me in case she agrees to do some "in public" hooking up but doesn't want to leave a mess somewhere. Boy Scouts motto, maaaan! #beprepared
 
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