"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So...6 months ago I told this girl I can't just be her friend cuz I'm too attracted to her goods. And she said, OK bye then.
Then now, she calls me...then she asks me to hang out. She picks me up, we eat then go to her place.
5 minutes later she's all over me...making out, etc....I did everything to her except sex.
She begs and pleads...super sexy...but I don't give in. I had no condoms.
Then she gets all mad. Says, "what do you think hanging out means?"

I'm like, whoa...wtf...
Can't figure it out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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badboyjmm

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She realized that she might as well give you what you want and not miss out. If she wasn't attracted, she would not give 2 fvcks...

Well she's right, you had to come prepared. Hopefully next time, you will get the job done !
 

Harry Wilmington

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LoL, thanks for this - it gave me an idea to record a podcast entitled "ALWAYS CARRY PROTECTION." I've had more than enough girls who initially want to hook up with me end up doing so months later, and I ALWAYS carry at least 2 condoms on me. Heck, even now that I have a girlfriend, I keep 'em on me in case she agrees to do some "in public" hooking up but doesn't want to leave a mess somewhere. Boy Scouts motto, maaaan! #beprepared
 
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