"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonez

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Apart from kicking his ass how do I get a friend to stop trying to be macho?

"I wanna fight tonight" kinda **** he pulls off at parties is a piss off. He's a hook-up for a lot of my friends and he's pulling lame immature insults and games out of his ass. The only reason the others are keeping him around is because he's a long time friend.

What the **** to do with him. I'm just ready to whack him once and leave it at that and tell him to **** off any time I see him from now on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rex Man

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Stop being a pvssy and tell him how you really feel. If you come to him like a man, he won't want to fight you. Also, why are you friends with him. Because "he's a hook up for a lot of MY friends"? If they're really you're friends, and not just his, then it shouldn't matter if you two get along great or not.
 
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