"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bonez

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Apart from kicking his ass how do I get a friend to stop trying to be macho?

"I wanna fight tonight" kinda **** he pulls off at parties is a piss off. He's a hook-up for a lot of my friends and he's pulling lame immature insults and games out of his ass. The only reason the others are keeping him around is because he's a long time friend.

What the **** to do with him. I'm just ready to whack him once and leave it at that and tell him to **** off any time I see him from now on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rex Man

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Stop being a pvssy and tell him how you really feel. If you come to him like a man, he won't want to fight you. Also, why are you friends with him. Because "he's a hook up for a lot of MY friends"? If they're really you're friends, and not just his, then it shouldn't matter if you two get along great or not.
 
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